She makes me sick,R.I.P., but, he did die in vain, because you don't want to face the truth, you will live in lies, and then you just set yourself up for more pain. Does she understand what she is doing? Supporting Bush, causing more pain for more families in the future, just like she's experiencing now! Kinda greedy.

This is an important message, and it's understandable that the widow can not think of her husbands death as dying for nothing. How she is approaching it for herself and her son is important for her and other military family members healing, but to avoid others from dying who are not yet dead, we must come to terms with the fact that this war is not for Democracy but for imperialist US gaols.